Reality Transurfing, Part 2: How to Stop Feeding the Wrong Forces
If Part 1 introduced the foundation — that your inner state selects your lifeline — Part 2 gets into the mechanism that interferes with it most: pendulums.
Pendulums are the invisible forces that pull you off your center and drain your energy. They shape your reactions, trigger emotional spikes, and create unnecessary difficulty in your life. Once you learn to recognize them, your internal world becomes clearer, and creating your reality becomes significantly easier.
This article breaks down the practical side of pendulums, why they matter, and how to stop feeding the ones that sabotage your path.
What Pendulums Really Are
A pendulum is any cluster of thought, emotion, or collective energy that grows stronger when people invest attention in it. Not supernatural — simply a pattern gathering momentum.
Examples include:
drama
conflict
group mentality
political outrage
toxic work dynamics
fear-based thinking
other people’s urgency
perfectionism
the need for validation
Pendulums don’t care about your well-being. They exist to perpetuate. And they continue themselves by getting an emotional reaction out of you — positive or negative.
You feed a pendulum when you:
argue
try to prove yourself
obsess
spiral
overreact
attach too much importance to something that doesn’t deserve it
The more emotion you give these situations, the stronger they become and the more they dominate your experience.
This is why some days feel like you’re being pulled into one problem after another. It’s not “bad luck.” It’s momentum.
Why Pendulums Matter in Transurfing
Pendulums don’t just distract you — they shift your trajectory.
When you get hooked by one, your inner state drops, your clarity shrinks, and you shift onto a lifeline where friction increases. You can feel it inside your body:
the tightening in the chest
the quickening of thought
the surge of irritation or fear
Those sensations are not personal flaws but signs that a pendulum is pulling you.
And here’s the key:
You don’t break a pendulum by fighting it.
You break it by starving it.
The moment you withhold emotional energy, the force loses strength. You gain it back. And the lifeline you’re on changes.
The Power of “Dropping Importance”
One of the most effective Transurfing techniques is the idea of reducing importance. Importance is the weight you attach to something — the sense of “this must work,” or “this has to go my way,” or “I can’t afford to mess this up.”
High importance creates tension. Tension feeds pendulums.
And pendulums feed unwanted outcomes.
Dropping importance is not apathy.
It’s balance.
When something matters — but not too much — you approach it with clarity and steadiness. Your actions are cleaner. Your thinking is sharper. Your timing improves. And the reality you step into responds with less resistance.
This single shift can change every area of life:
relationships, money, career, creativity, self-worth.
Balanced importance = smoother outcomes.
Scripts You Don’t Have to Follow
Another part of pendulums is the idea of “scripts.” A script is the expected sequence of events a pendulum tries to pull you into. For example:
someone snaps at you → you snap back
a situation escalates → you panic
someone doubts you → you defend yourself
something goes wrong → you assume the worst
Scripts are predictable. They follow a pattern.
But Transurfing teaches that you can step out of the script at any moment.
All you have to do is interrupt the expected reaction.
When you change the response, the entire script collapses. The pendulum loses hold. And you shift onto a calmer trajectory — one where you regain agency.
Your power lies in the pause between stimulus and response.
That pause is where you rewrite the script.
A Simple One-Day Practice
The “Step Out of the Script” Method
For the next 24 hours, try this:
When someone or something triggers a familiar reaction, pause for two seconds.
Ask: “What is the script here?”
Choose a different response — calmer, quieter, or simply neutral.
You don’t have to respond perfectly.
You just have to respond differently.
That single shift pulls you out of the pendulum’s reach and redirects your path.
What Starts to Change
When you stop feeding the wrong forces:
conversations that normally escalate stop doing so
people who push your buttons lose power
you stop feeling drained by situations that once overwhelmed you
you become harder to manipulate
clarity becomes easier to access
confidence rises because you’re directing energy, not leaking it
your day feels lighter and more spacious
You’re no longer caught in other people’s momentum.
You’re steering your own.
This is where Transurfing becomes less theoretical and more like an internal discipline — one that strengthens your ability to choose your reality, not just react to it.
Want Support in Applying This?
If you’re ready to work with these tools in a deeper, more personal way, you can book a one-on-one session. We can combine coaching with astrology and/or intuitive insight and apply Transurfing directly to whatever you’re facing — relationships, purpose, creative work, or any area where you want to regain clarity and direction.